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  • Writer's pictureJered Sturm

4 Reasons Introverts Make Great Real Estate Salespeople

“Quiet people have the loudest minds.” - Steven Hawking

Quiet people, who could sometimes also be classified as introverts, are typically not the group of people you would label as the salesman type. But now, after years of being involved in sales and specifically real estate, I see that some of most common attributes of introverts are what make a great salesperson in this industry. I hope this article will encourage those who would label themselves as introverts to see this as the asset it is and utilize it in their own investing/business.

Sales is the engine that drives business. Every day, to generate income, you have to sell something. You sell yourself; you sell your beliefs; you sell your products, services, connections, worth, and so on. If you cannot sell, you will not produce income.

Even though sales is vital for a business to succeed, if I say the word “salesman,” what pops into your head? Maybe a guy in an expensive suit and flashy watch walking up to you with a big smile on his face, ready to smoothly yet aggressively persuade you to buy a used car from his lot? Many of us have this or a similar stereotype of salespeople. We conjure up extroverted smooth talkers who can close the deal through their high energy, outgoing conversation skills. But in real estate, things are different. The successful sales people in real estate take a different approach. Even if you don’t see yourself as a good salesperson, you may be perfect.

For years, I had this same type of stereotype in my head. But then I had several people tell me I was a great salesman. I thought, “What are they talking about? I’m no salesman.” I am usually the quiet person in the room. I have a small group of friends. I typically prefer solitude over social settings. It’s not that I am shy, because I’m not at all. It’s just my preference. In other words, I am in introvert. And in my mind, introverts were not good salespeople because they weren’t like the used car salesman.

As our real estate business continued to grow, I had more people extend the compliment that I was a good salesperson. Eventually, after embracing the responsibilities of sales and marketing in my business, I realize now that I am a good salesperson — and that being an introvert is actually what makes me good. In business, being able to sell is vital for success, but it doesn’t require you to fit the used car salesman stereotype.

If you are selling used cars, widgets, or some other thing where you have a short amount of time to close the transaction, the classic, stereotypical salesman approach may be the most successful, but in real estate, I have found the exact opposite. A great quote that outlines this well is, “If people like you, they will listen to you. But if they trust you, they will do business with you. The investors who can buy the best deals from off-market sellers, negotiate creative terms, and raise money from investors are patient, relatable, genuine, authentic, empathetic, problems solvers through listening. These traits fall right into the wheel house of an introvert.

What makes introverts such good sales people in real estate?

4 Reasons Introverts Make Great Real Estate Salespeople

They have the ability to understand the needs that drive your customer.

As the quote at the start of this article said, “Quiet people have the loudest minds.” Often the most powerful skill in sales is the ability to listen to someone, ask a brief question, and continue listening. All the while, your mind is working in the background to identify what need or goal your customer has and how you can add genuine value by solving that need. Dominating the conversation will not allow you to uncover the needs of your customer.

They have the resourcefulness and drive to find a solution to the customer’s needs.

Over years of listening, reading, and absorbing information, a good salesman will have the ability to anticipate potential questions or objections and solve them before they are even asked. After having a full understanding of the customer’s needs, the good salesperson will take what he/she has heard and pose a clear but simple solution to how he/she can and will fulfill the customer’s need.

They are genuine.

Typically, an introvert says far less than an extrovert, so when they do speak, the words they say carry a lot of meaning and purpose. What this does differently from the salesperson who can talk up a storm is build trust. If you overload the conversation with too much, you can often set off someone’s “BS meter” even if you are not BSing. The fact is, if you add fluff around the vital content, you are often going to make people skeptical. Introverts talk less, so they get to the point.

They appreciate a valuable relationship.

Going through life with a much smaller social circle, introverts often place a higher value on the relationships they do have. In the real estate industry, transactions are often high-dollar, and strong relationships build trust — and authentic trust is vital to complete these transactions. The inherited traits of patience, empathy, and gratitude that many introverts carry are just some of the reasons they often build and maintain strong, lasting relationships.

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